Friday, 28 August 2009

You don't have to win all of the time........

...anyway there really isn't such a thing as losing if you view it in a positive way.

Apparently according to scientific research those people who are ultra ultra competitive and except nothing but a win are constantly disappointed in life and rarely reach the utopia that they are striving for. These people even rate some of their smaller successes lower than some other people would rate their failures!

Its ok to lose sometimes, as long as you learn a lesson from the experience......you only really lose if you don't take something positive from it. Whether it be sport, business, relationships or health the losses or negative experience gives us clues to where we need to improve.

The real champions in this world are those people who harness the experience, learn from it, move on and then apply it to the next experience.......when they lose they positively tell themselves that nothing like this will ever happen to them again!!!

So learn from the loss and turn it into a win......this isn't just positive mumbo jumbo.....it works!!!

Have a fantastic day.

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